As time flies by..people tend to grow
They tend to forget what people did for them and they are busy in their own world. They forget about the people who helped them and move on..and when the person who helped them ask them for help ...they have 100 or 1000 excuses
They may need help with something so small yet .. they make excuses...
Sounds familiar?
This is the story of your mom , your friend , your dad and anyone that has helped you.
Maybe your not that type for person but you must have atleast once in your life must have done that. Maybe you wont realise it then let my post help you remember.
Lets start with our mothers
When you were younger, she woke up earlier then you , made you breakfast Woke you up helped you get ready for school then when you come back from school she makes sure you have warm food on your plate so that you are not hunry ..and then you grow older you get married you have your own family and you have a good job and earn enough money for your family.. and you think that this is all your hardwork ..I agree it maybe your hardwork but twice the amount of hardwork you did you mom did , she raised you up she helped you when you were down , when you were about to give up she told its okay you can achieve it dont give up. And she was your pillar until you could stand up by yourself. She carried you nine months in her tummy, gave birth to you raised you. So start by being greatful to your mom because without her you wont be where you are today .. deny it all you want but that's the truth, she may be annoying and always shouting at you and sometimes embarrassing you but the Truth is without her you are nothing So start helping and dont make excuse
And start being thankful its not to late.
Next your friend
Yes that very friend who was your friend when no one else wanted to be or when you were lonely.The same friend who doesn't use you and is genuinely your friend. The very friend that has listen to all your rants and help you against bullies, the same friend that was always a phone call away the same friend who is always ready to comfort you when you need it no matter how busy she is ... and the same friend who always advises you...
but when that same friend need a shoulder your not there ... when that same friend is lonely... your suddenly the busiest person on earth ... when that same friend that listen to your rants..but you cant even spare a minute for her to rant and start saying she so annoying and start complaining and judging her.
Next your dad
Your dad probably didn't get to spend that much time with you well that because he has to work hard for you so that you have a good education so that you can get anything that you want... but most importantly he works hard so that you can have food on your plate..I know that few of us are very greatful to our parents our friends and those who helped us but then there are some of us who forget it and start talking bad about the same people who were there with them even in their worst times.. I hope this post has helped you maybe realise what certain people have done for you for you in your life..start being there for them and helping them also like they did for.. and dont make excuses and start talking trash about them when they did so much for you. If you are those people who are greatful and are helpful to all those people that helped you in your life .. I am very proud of you because in The current world none of us are like that .. I even myself am ungrateful for things people did for me but I am starting to realise it. Honesty speaking from my personal experience I am one those friend that are always there for you and who always listening to your rants but what I can say is that it hurts us when we do so much for you , you don't appreciate it and are not there for us when we need you ...but you always expect us to be there for you there is also a limit to what a person can do and maybe because of this I am starting to realise what some people did for me.
So start being thankful and greatful. It doesn't have to something that you have to buy something expensive or anything just be there for them like they were for you they will appreciate it alot .
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